Leading a child to Christ is the greatest thing you can do as a teacher, children’s pastor or most important a parent. Beyond all the gadgets, magic illusions, and puppets lies the real reason we do what we do. All of these are tools to help us bring the children to the point of decision of asking Jesus to come into their hearts. The younger we can reach the children for Jesus the better. A child has their whole life ahead of them to do as God wills and to live a life obedient to Jesus. I remember a young child and a dad responding to a salvation call from our pastor. When they approached the altar my pastor said, “Here comes one and one half lives to Jesus.” The congregation laughed as they assumed the pastor meant the child was the half of a life and the adult being the whole life. The pastor realizing the presumption of the congregation brought correction. He then said to the church, “You assumed the adult was the whole life but if you think about it, this man has lived half his life with only half left to live for Jesus. The child on the other hand has a full life that he can live walking with Jesus.”
You can never tell what the final outcome will be when you lead a child to Jesus Christ. That child could become a strong influence in your church, a future elder, deacon, or possibly even the senior pastor. That same child may influence their whole family to come to Christ.
This reminds me of my dear friend and co-worker in Singapore, Sammy Watt. Sammy is a Chinese born into a Buddhist home. His parents owned a shop that sold all the items needed to offer worship in the Chinese Buddhist Temples. (Actually Chinese Buddhism is a mix of Buddhism, Hinduism, Confucism, superstition and Black Magic) The store sold oil, incense sticks, fruit, and such that were designed to be offered in worship at the temple. Needless to say his family was staunch Buddhists.
When Sammy was ten years old a friend invited him to a Sunday School class at a church. Sammy went with his friend and continued to go every week. Through that class Sammy gave his heart to Jesus. Every Sunday morning Sammy would get up, get dressed and head off to Sunday School. His Buddhist mother would stand at the door and try to discourage little Sammy from going, but each week Sammy would be persistent and off he went.
I met Sammy when he was in his mid twenties. At this point none of his family members (four brothers and three sisters) had come to Christ. Sammy started to bring his nieces and nephews to the Kids church we were pastoring at the time. The parents, still being Buddhist, allowed them to come so we could “Baby Sit” them on Sunday mornings so they could have a morning alone having breakfast and shopping. The nieces and nephews gave their hearts to Jesus at the Kids Church. We had prepared a special presentation by the children to be performed in the adult church on Sunday.
Sammy invited his Buddhist mom to come see her grandchildren sing and perform and she accepted the invitation. The Saturday evening before we had a birthday party and Sammy was there. We talked about the next day when his mom would come to church. Sammy said to me, “Pastor Tim, if my mom ever comes to Christ it would be at least five years from now.” I responded out of my spirit and said, “Sammy, trust the Holy Spirit.”
The next day his mom came to church and at the end of the service our pastor gave a salvation call, and guess who responded? That’s right, Sammy’s mom! In a Chinese home, reaching the head of the family is a key. Sammy’s dad had died some years before so his mom was the head. We have watched as one by one Sammy’s brothers and sisters are convert to being Christians since his mother made that decision. All of his little nieces and nephews who performed that crucial Sunday morning are teenagers and serving in leadership in their churches.
Never underestimate what could happen when you lead a child to Jesus. The most important thing is that child will end up in heaven, but during their time on earth they could go on and change their world for Jesus.
One of my favorite movies is “It’s a Wonderful Life” with Jimmy Stewart. Probably most of you have seen the movie and remember the beginning of the movie when George (Jimmy Stewart) and his younger brother were sled riding down a hill and onto a frozen lake. George’s brother slid too far onto the ice and hit a thin spot and fell in. George ends up rescuing his brother. The movie goes on to George’s adult life where he dreams of traveling someday. The family business prevents that from happening and a series of unfortunate events makes George cry out, “I wish I was never born!”
God answers his desire through an angel who grants George his wish and shows him his life without him ever being born. Nothing is the same. The next part of the movie impressed me. George was reading the newspaper headlines. The headlines read that a Navy ship was hit by a Kamikaze plane and sunk. George recognizes that this was his brother’s ship and when George was alive his brother shot down that Kamikaze plane, became a war hero and saved the ship. Since George was not alive he was not there to save his brother when he went through the ice. His brother drowned and then later on in life was not there to shoot down the plane. As a result the whole ship sunk and every sailor died.
The power of one life lived for Jesus! The child you lead to Christ today could be the next Billy Graham or lead their friend to Christ who is the next Billy Graham.
There are many opinions of when children are ready to receive Christ. It is said that ages eight years old to eleven years old are the easiest years. The true answer to that question is any age is the right age. If children are old enough to understand doing wrong, which is sin, then they are old enough to understand a Savior. One of the advantages and dangers of teaching children is that they are without suspicions. They will believe exactly what we tell them the Bible says. Children more naturally accept Christ because they have not been hurt or disillusioned by a sin filled world. They are still innocent. Their innocence is what the world and the devil is constantly trying to steal at a younger age all the time.
In my experience of ministering to children over the years, I have seen children respond to a salvation call many times throughout their childhood years. I once heard a young adult give testimony of when he came to Christ. He shared how at 4 years old he asked Jesus into his heart at Sunday School. Later on when he was nine years old he got saved again in Kids Church. At 12 years old at a youth group he responded to an altar call and received Jesus. Then at 15 years old he went to a youth camp and went down front to be born again and it stuck!
I have seen children’s workers discourage children responding when they have seen them respond at an earlier time. I believe it is healthy and exposes the openness of the child’s heart to spiritual things. We never need to question the validity of a child’s acceptance of Jesus. Our responsibility is to share the Gospel and present the opportunity to respond. The Holy Spirit has a unique ability to move on the children’s hearts. Only God knows the heart.
I will give some counseling guidelines (notice I said guidelines not rules) for leading children to Jesus in a church or Sunday School setting. As children’s ministers we have many opportunities to give the salvation call to a group of children and this is wonderful, but the best way to minister to a child is one on one or with a small group.
To reach a child’s heart for Jesus, present the Love of God. Romans 2:4 tells us that it is “the goodness of God leads you to repentance?” That goodness stems from His unconditional love for us. Children need to know that Jesus loves them very much. There is no need to scare the children or try to convince them to respond to Jesus by sharing sad stories. If presented sincerely and truthfully the children will respond naturally and without fear. God has put eternity in the hearts of every human being with no respect of age. (Ecclesiastes 3:11) The God-shaped hole that only Jesus can fill is in the heart of every boy and girl.
Choose words that are clear, simple, and without double meaning in your presentation. Avoid abstract terms and phrases. Avoid difficult or confusing words. Children take every word literally. When you tell them to ask Jesus into their hearts, they see Jesus living in their physical, beating heart. A child might not understand the word “sin” but they can understand doing things wrong like, stealing, lying, disobeying parents, cussing, etc. The Gospel is very simple and easy to understand, even for a child if presented simply.
When the Holy Spirit has prepared the way and you sense He wants you to offer a call to salvation for the children, have everyone bow their heads and close their eyes. Ask how many boys and girls have Jesus in their hearts or lives. Have them raise their hands. Start with the positive. Many children at this time will realize that they need Jesus. Reinforce how wonderful it is that so many have accepted Jesus as their Lord and Savior. Celebrate the decision these children have made and then tell them to lower their hands. After this ask how many children do not have Jesus in their hearts, but would like to have Him there. Have them raise their hands.
You now have three choices. (1) If you have enough workers, invite them to work personally with the children who respond. (2) If it is a large group, lead them in a prayer of acceptance and commitment while they are still in their seats. (3) Bring the children forward and minister to them with the other children witnessing.
If you have enough workers the best way to ensure a strong conversion is by working with the children on a one-on-one basis. Workers should be those who you know and are trained to work with the children. NEVER ALLOW A STRANGER TO MINISTER IN YOUR CLASS OR SERVICE. Take the children who respond to another area or room and minister to them.
In a large group situation you may ask for a salvation response and then lead the children who respond in a prayer of salvation while at their seats. Make sure you tell them to get with a pastor, Sunday school teacher, a "saved" parent, etc. and tell them of their new commitment to Christ.
The most traditional way is to have the children who respond to the salvation call come to the front while the other children witness. Build the children up who come forward, letting them know that this is the most important decision they have ever made. Have the children sitting, clap for the children who come up. Let them know that they were very courageous for coming up and Jesus is proud of them.
Now it is time to counsel the children and lead them in a prayer to accept Jesus as their Lord and Savior. The first thing to remember is to take control. Do not allow the children to become unruly. Praise the children once again for their brave decision to come up to receive Jesus. Explain to the children that you will ask everyone a question: "Why did you come?" You are trying to make sure they know what they are doing. The question is: "Have you ever asked Jesus into your heart?" We explain that once Jesus has come into their heart, He will never leave them. Sometimes children are convicted by an act of disobedience. They need to know they just have to ask for forgiveness. If we have enough workers it would be good if we minister to them individually and make sure they ask for forgiveness of any sins and give them assurance of their salvation. As we said earlier, some children respond many times to a salvation call. The good thing is that they are responding and feeling the presence of the Holy Spirit.
It is time to explain to the children how we can accept Christ. There are some key points that we must try to make relevant to the children. (1) First they must realize that they have done wrong. ROMANS 3:23 Let them know that everyone including you, their parents, their pastor, their Sunday school teacher, etc. have sinned. Explain that sin anything we have done wrong, such as lying, cheating, cussing disobeying parents, hating, etc. Make sure they know ONLY JESUS NEVER SINNED. (2) They must realize that there is a punishment for doing wrong. ROMANS 6:23 Explain to them that true death is separation from God forever, Hell! Sometimes instead of frightening them with the threat of Hell is to give them the hope of heaven. I always explain to the children that there is a place called heaven that they will go to if they have Jesus in their hearts. I also explain that everyone will die. Someday when they get really, really, really old, they will die and go to heaven where Jesus is! (3) They must realize that Jesus took our punishment and He will forgive them of anything wrong they have ever done if they are sorry. The children need to know that they must want to change the bad stuff they were doing. (4) They must realize that if we invite Jesus into our lives, He truly comes in and is there forever and ever. Explain that they will probably sin again, but Jesus does not leave, they just need to ask Him for forgiveness when they sin again. I JOHN 1:9 These are the four essential truths that you must make relevant to the children.
After you have communicated to the children the Gospel truths you get the privilege of leading the children in a prayer. Include all of the above in the prayer. Make sure you use terms that are easy to understand. Many of us who have been in the Lord for some years develop a “Christian-ese”. Choose words that are clear and simple.
After praying with them, be silent and allow the Holy Spirit to minister to them. I look forward to services and moments in services where I feel God’s presence but every time I take the time and wait after praying a salvation prayer with the children His presence is so evident. Sometimes it is a matter of 30 seconds or so but it feels like eternity. If you watch the children closely you can literally see the Holy Spirit ministering to them in that short time. After this special time pray out loud for the children and ask God to fill them and seal them by the Holy Spirit.
When you have finished praying for the children build the children up again and tell them what a special thing they just did. Now you need to explain that there are certain things they should do now that they are Christians: (1) Read the Bible everyday. It is God's way of talking to us. Encourage them to start with the Gospels. Provide a Bible to anyone who does not have one. (2) Pray everyday. It is our way to talk to Jesus. Jesus is now there for them and is their friend to help them. They need to know that Jesus will help them in any problem or trouble. They should also be told to tell Jesus about the good things that happen and thank Him. (3) They should continue to attend Sunday School and Church. This is where they will grow spiritually and learn more about Jesus. (4) They should tell somebody about their decision they just made. ROMANS 10:9-10
All of the above information is just a guideline. We must always trust the Holy Spirit to lead and guide us. God’s ways are above our ways and sometimes He will move differently than what we expect Him to do. Be prayed up and sensitive to whatever He directs you to do.
